Saturday Aaron and I played D&D, then we played Luigi’s Mansion with IL6.
Sunday
Sunday I cooked a turkey dinner for Aaron’s birthday. (It had been intended to be cooked on Thursday, but I made a mistake ordering the brine, so we cooked it on Sunday, instead.) My friend Liz came over for dinner to celebrate. I invite my friends over for Aaron’s birthday. That’s how I roll.
Monday
Monday I took M12 to an appointment, and then took IL6 to an appointment. After that, I let D15 drive. She got on the streets for the first time today, and didn’t run any stop signs. I was still feeling the never-ending tiredness I’ve felt since being sick two weeks ago, so I rested for a while, then read to D15. Then I talked to Aaron till it was time to go to work.
Tuesday
Tuesday after work, I almost immediately took D15 to her appointment. Then I ran some errands, worked on my to-do list, and read. In the evening, Liz came over and the family ate pizza and watched Doctor Who.
Wednesday
Wednesday Dad and I both had a personal trainer appointment at the gym. I let D15 drive again – she successfully backed out of the driveway, drove around the side-roads, and pulled back in the driveway. Speed while turning needs a lot of work. After dinner, I read to D15, then went in early to work.
Thursday
Thursday I relaxed. I took a nap, went to lunch with Aaron, and even watched a little TV. Aaron took D15 to get a henna tattoo. IL6 programmed the computer and then went to Cub Scouts. M12 played a computer game online with a friend.
Friday
Friday, I went directly from work to two appointments for IL6. Then Aaron and I ran some errands (our last weekday of running errands before he starts his new job). In the evening, dad treated us to Outback Steakhouse.
Week’s Photos
Reading to myself
12 World Religions, by Jason Boyett
New Scientist: Our Quantum Future
The Economist: The Would-be King
A Hat Full of Sky, by Terry Pratchett
The Life of Elizabeth I, by Allison Weir
March: Book Two, by John Lewis, Andrew Aydin, and Nate Powell
The Week: Maga Military
Reading to IL5
The Yellow Bus, by Loren Long
The Bubble Gum Blob, by Andres Miedoso
The Pirate’s Eye, by Guy Bass
Bad Hair Day, by Jim Benton
D14 reading
I Am Malala, by Malala Yousafzai
Neverseen, by Shannon Messenger
Media Completed
A yellow bus lives its life.
Stitch Head decides it’s time to leave Castle Grotteskew when his master leaves permanently. This book was very enjoyable, and IL6 enjoyed it, but it was a little long for him. I will split the third book into pieces of once a week.
In this second book in John Lewis’ graphic memoir he goes on Freedom Rides. It was heartbreaking. Very good drawings.
Saturday had a slow beginning, but I perked up towards the end. IL6 wrote another program on my computer, and played a bit of LEGO. D15 relaxed, as did Aaron.
Sunday
Sunday was productive. I got lots done on my to-do list, read a lot, and took D15 driving in a parking lot. Much to her chagrin, she missed two stop signs, so I wouldn’t take her on the roads.
Monday
Monday was another productive day – the second really good day in a row. In fact, I feel like since I started taking 90 minutes to read a news magazine daily I have actually become more, rather than less, productive.
The kids had the day off school. IL6 programmed a new game and played LEGOs. D15 and M12 watched videos. Aaron, dad, and I went to the gym for an hour, then Aaron and I ran a couple of errands. I also got a bunch of reading and some cross-stitch in.
Tuesday
Monday was exhausting. Immediately after returning from work, we jumped one of the cars. Then I woke M12 and D15 to eat and get ready, respectively. I took care of some stuff with IL6. D15 and I went to her appointment. Immediately following that, I took M12 and IL6 to the library because M12 needed to do his homework from all the school he missed last week. I played with IL6 for about an hour before he picked books. He ran in the library repeatedly, and I didn’t stop him.
Then I went to the pharmacy to pick up dad’s meds, and ended up stuck in the line for 20 minutes because the pharmacist was at lunch. I loaded dad, M12, and my pill minders, only I was missing two meds, and I thought I’d ordered them last week, but apparently I didn’t confirm. Then M12 wanted McDonald’s, and I felt that I should get it for him because D15 had had a Jersey Mike’s sandwich earlier.
Finally, at 3:30, I had a break and was able to look at my personal goals, which had been ignored all day. But I was too stressed to do them, so I wrote a letter, cooked dinner, and played LEGO with IL6 for 35 minutes while the food was in the oven. I was beat at the end of all that, so spent the rest of the evening talking to Aaron before going to work again.
Aaron, did entertain IL6 for about an hour on his computer game, which gave me time for the pill boxes, but mainly because I reminded IL6 that he hadn’t played on dad’s computer for a while.
Wednesday
Wednesday was a great day it was Aaron’s 50th birthday. After an hour at the gym, he and I had a date. While on our date, he got a job offer! And a good one, too. 😊
I spent a good chunk of time reading in the afternoon, and then when IL6 got home, we all went out to family dinner for Aaron’s birthday. Then Aaron and I chatted while the kids played on screens. M12 was actually playing with a friend on a computer game, which is a new activity for him. I like the social aspect of that.
Thursday
Thursday I woke a little light-headed. I don’t think I was sick, I think I was just burnt out from trying to catch up after getting behind while I was sick the week before. But because I couldn’t stand very long at a time, I just spent the whole day reading and doing just the basic things that needed to get done. IL6 programed my computer with me for a while in the afternoon.
Friday
Friday, I took IL6 to two appointments, then drove dad to the gym and picked up my niece and nephew from school. Later, dad took IL6, Aaron, and me to Red Lobster. Afterwards IL6 and I played Luigi’s Mansion and Aaron gamed with his friends. M12 was at scout camp, and D15 was with her mom.
Week’s Photos
I can see a face!
Reading to myself
New Scientist: Dark Side of the Microbiome
The Economist: Battle for the Pentagon
The Ravenswood Witch, by Jenni Keer
Master of the Phantom Isle, by Brandon Mull
Diary of A Young Girl, by Anne Frank
The Week: Collision Course
Mr Ballen podcast
New Scientist: Our Quantum Future
Reading to IL5
Time to Clown Around, by Andres Miedoso
The Pirate’s Eye, by Guy Bass
D14 reading
Neverseen, by Shannon Messenger
Media Completed
IL6 was so excited when we found out we missed a Desmond Cole book when we read them all. In this one, Andres is afraid of clowns.
Gerald starts sneezing and thinks it’s Piggy making him sneeze.
When a young woman is running away from the law, she stumbles into a mysterious man who pretends she is his wife to keep her safe. This book was great with a bit of a surprise, though the big reveal was obvious from the beginning.
Saturday IL6 and Aaron were supposed to go to Cub Scout Polar camp, but he had forgotten his snowpants at school, and we didn’t have a spare. Not only was it snowing, but it was in the single digits temperature. So he stayed home. 😭 Aaron and I played Dungeons and Dragons, then I dyed D15’s hair blue.
Sunday
Sunday….well…apparently I remember nothing about Sunday. Maybe something happened? I slept poorly due to nausea and M12 sicker than me.
Monday
Sunday night, both M12 and I were nauseated – and M12 was repeatedly vomiting. In the morning, he felt fine, but I was groggy and had awful body aches. I slept all day. In the afternoon, Aaron was supposed to take D15 to her permit test, but he had misplaced her (and M12’s) birth certificate. D15 was so disappointed. 😭Then M12 became short of breath, so I dragged myself to the thermometer and took his temperature. It was 104.5. I slept the rest of the evening/night till 1am.
Tuesday
Tuesday was a disaster at first. I had stayed home from work because I was sick, so I was there to be awakened when D15 started throwing up and got diarrhea. Then she let me know we had a leak in the basement. It was a failed pipe.
Aaron turned off the water, but then I had to take D15 to the toilet at Perkins and the gas station (2 times), and Aaron took her to the toilet at our grocery store. She threw up most of the day, and ran a 103.4 fever. M12 was also home because of his fever on Monday, and had another low-grade fever on Tuesday.
Good news: the pipe was fixed by about 11am. Plus Aaron got a copy of the older kids’ birth certificates. I set up an appointment for D15 to take the permit test on Wednesday at a 48 minute drive away. It’s the closest we could get. We figured she couldn’t be at school, but would probably be ok for taking the test.
IL5 worked on coding a new game on my computer with my help. He’s getting really good at it, considering he can’t read. He learns so fast. The teacher did say he learns visually. He threw up rather dramatically at the end of the day.
Wednesday
Wednesday, all three kids were home sick, and dad was pretty darned sick, too. I went to the gym, but started feeling lightheaded, so I came home.
I was trying to take it easy and get the basic tasks done for the day and get a lot of reading in. But IL6 wanted to program his game on the computer, and we spent 2 hours doing that.
D15, who wasn’t actually sick (she just had to stay out of school because she’d vomited within 24 hours), took the permit test in a city 48 minutes away (because that was the closest next-day appointment) and passed. Aaron took her out driving in the parking lot, but wouldn’t let her drive faster than 5 mph, which I think is excessively slow, but I guess I didn’t see if she was doing poorly with her breaking and steering.
Thursday
Thursday, I had a lot of unexpected housework to do, and felt very overwhelmed. But Aaron did the dishes when I said I was overwhelmed, so that was nice.
When IL6 got home, he wanted to play the computer game he had coded. It was 3-person, so at first M12 joined us, then Aaron joined us. After that, IL6 coded a 1-person game. All these games are pretty much identical in function, but not in appearance, so I really need to help him branch out. Not sure how to do that, though, because he is very strong-willed. On the other hand, he actually knows how to code that game with minimal assistance from me.
In the evening, I read while IL6 was at Cub Scouts, and then again in IL6’s room for a quarter hour before the older kids decided to come in and either have an anxiety attack (D15), or make lots of noise (M12 with IL6)..
Friday
Friday, IL6 had two appointments in the morning. Then, after dropping him off at school, I only managed to finish a little housework before he arrived home again. He programmed a computer game for a while, then Aaron and I went out for a Valentine’s Day date. I was a little concerned it would be crowded, but we went somewhere that didn’t seem like it would be a popular Valentine’s Day destination, and scored – we were seated right away.
Week’s Photos
Making progress
Reading to myself
The Economist: Scam Inc
The Ravenswood Witch, by Jenni Keer
March Book 1, by John Lewis, Andrew Ayden, and Nate Powel
The Week: Musk’s Rampage
The Life of Elizabeth I, by Allison Weir
New Scientist: The Dark Side of Your Microbiome
12 World Religions, by Jason Boyett
Reading to IL5
Stitch Head: The Pirate’s Eye, by Guy Bass
The Frandidate, by Jim Benton
D14 reading
Crazy Wanda, by Terry Goodkind
Neverseen, by Shannon Messenger
Media Completed
John Lewis tells a couple of kids about his youth and organizing sit-ins in Nashville. This graphic novel is drawn well, and holds the reader’s interests.
Fran wants to run for president of her class, but has difficulty appealing as a candidate. So she creates a skin which changes into (and says) whatever each voter wants. Funny and cute.
Saturday IL6 had a birthday party to go for his triplet friends. It was at a kids’ gymnastics gymnasium. He loved it for the first hour, but then they decided to make it structured, and he got bored and came back to me. (I think the gymnasium was trying to drum up interest in their gymnastics classes by having a “lesson.”)
After the party, I wrote a letter, then Aaron and I went to D15’s play. There were two 45 minute plays, and she was very proud of being able to bow twice.
Sunday
Sunday we all relaxed. M12 went to band. In the evening, we played D&D as a family.
Monday
Monday was pretty productive. I dived into my to-do list, took dad to an appointment, the bank, and a nail salon. Since I had finished a good chunk of stuff by then, I read The Economist until IL6 got home. When M12 got home from auditions for the middle school play, I started cooking meatloaf. M12 then went to Boy Scouts and I finally programmed in Scratch with IL6 again. He learned a lesson on saving when he accidentally deleted something that we couldn’t get back, and we had to go back to a previous save. He lost some work, but he survived.
Tuesday
Tuesday Aaron and I took D15 to an appointment, and then we exercised. D15 did tech crew work after school. M12 had jazz band rehearsal.
When IL6 got home, he wanted to program the computer more (he’s really catching on), but what he wanted to do wasn’t possible, and he wouldn’t believe me. Then M12 tried to do it, and he said it was impossible, and IL6 believed him.
Wednesday
Wednesday started with me taking dad to the gym – we were both going to work out. But then I discovered that the wheel had fallen off his walker, so I told dad that we needed to look for the nut and bolt. It had fallen out somewhere. Dad said “Oh! Do you need me to come along?” Like, umm. Well it IS your walker. But, whatever. I left him there and went searching for the bolt. I didn’t find it. I returned 30 minutes later for my workout with my personal trainer.
Then Aaron and I went to a pub while waiting for our car to get an oil change.
Later, we went to parent-teacher conferences for the boys. They are both doing well. All teachers gave glowing reviews.
Thursday
Thursday was a relaxing day. The boys had no school, so dad took us all to Perkins. Then we relaxed at home. I read to D15 in the evening.
Friday
On Friday, I took IL6 to an appointment and then tried to take him to a second appointment, but it was cancelled. Then I took him for a haircut. Following that, I took IL6 and M12 to the library, and then D15 to a doctor’s appointment. In the evening, dad took us out to dinner.
Reading to myself
The Diary of a Young Girl, by Anne Frank
Human Acts, by Han Kang
12 Major World Religions, by Jason Boyett
Mr Ballen Podcast
The Life of Elizabeth I, by Allison Weir
The Economist: Revolt Against Regulation
The Week: Immigration Offensive
Master of the Phantom Isle, by Brandon Mull
Ravenswood Witch, by Jenni Keer
Reading to IL5
Attack of the Shadow Smashers, by Troy Cummings
Jo Bright and the Seven Bots, by Deborah Underwood and Meg Hunter
The Kiss Box, by Bonny Verburg and Henry Cole
The Fran With Four Brains, by Jim Benton
D14 reading
Neverseen, by Shannon Messenger
The Book Thief, by Markus Zusak
Aaron reading
Fury of the Gods, by John Gwynne
Media Completed
A young bear learns to separate temporarily from his mom.
Retelling of Snow White
Alexander and his team fight shadow monsters. IL6 loved it.
Fran builds some bots to help her get stuff done.
In this heartbreaking novel, Han Kang explores how people must have felt in the aftermath of the Gwangju uprising (where about 2000 people were massacred for protesting). I had not heard about this real event in 1980, and it was terrible to behold in this novel. Human Acts was eloquently written – I see why Han Kang won the Nobel Prize.
Saturday Aaron and I slept in. Then we played D&D for 4 hours. I had told IL6 I would teach him to code a game, so I downloaded Scratch, but then was having difficulty figuring it out. So I told him I needed to watch a tutorial. However, I was too tired for a tutorial, so, despite trying to watch one, I took a nap. For the rest of the evening. And through the night till just after 4am. I fell back to sleep around 6am.
Sunday
Sunday started with me trying to program an easy game with IL6 on Scratch (A kids’ programming language developed by MIT). He actually picked it up surprisingly well. We ran into a bug I was trying to fix, but he didn’t have the patience to fix it, so his mind on what he wanted to do, and screamed at me when I continued trying to solve the original problem. I didn’t know how to do the new thing he wanted to do, either, though Malcolm rather snottily explained how to program in a very simplistic sort of way that I’d understood even before watching the tutorial, because apparently he thinks I’m stupid. I told IL6 that I would figure it out alone, and we could continue tomorrow. We stopped at 11am.
I then looked at my phone. My friend Liz had texted at 10:30 to ask if she should come for our trip to Olive Garden for our book club meeting at 11. Oops. I told her “yes?” And started to get IL6 ready, as Aaron was out. Then, Liz asked if her nephew could come along, so I invited M12, and it turned out to be a party.
A little after getting home, I took M12 to band, then headed to the library with IL6. They had gotten rid of his favorite toys, but had acquired a new one that he wanted to play with. Someone else was playing with it, so he wanted to wait. But the computer was broken, and we’d picked out books, and I was super tired again, so to IL6’s dismay we went home. I felt bad.
Then I zonked out for 2 hours in IL6’s bed, while he played on his phone on the bed. And that was pretty much the end of the evening.
Monday
Monday Aaron and I went to the gym and ran errands. I figured out how to do what IL6 wanted to do while programming the game. But then he didn’t actually want to program when he got home, despite reminding me about it in the morning.
In the evening, dad took us to Red Lobster for dinner. Then IL6 wanted to hang out in his room, so I got some reading done. My cross-stitch of the creeper is coming along much faster than the one of Groot. I think because I’m more experienced. It is a lot more complex that Groot, though.
Tuesday
Tuesday I went to the gym, then to lunch, then to errands with dad and Aaron.
Wednesday
Wednesday, I got up at 5am and started the 3 hour drive to get to my aunt’s funeral. It was a beautiful service and nice seeing everyone, but at the end my social battery was drained and I had a headache, so I didn’t socialize long. I drove back home that night.
Thursday
Thursday I had little motivation to do anything. I washed dad’s laundry and ran some small errands. I read and cross-stitched for a little while. (The pattern is difficult because there are so many shades of green in one- or two-pixel areas, making the counting a pain.) IL6 had Cub Scouts. D15 had play rehearsal. M12 went skiing after school with some friends.
Friday
Friday started with two appointments for IL6. Then I wrote a couple of letters and read for a while. D15 had the first night of her play, which she says went well.
Week’s Photos
Reading to myself
Beyond These Walls, by Tony Platt
Children of Virtue and Vengeance, by Tomi Adeyemi
Mahabharata
The Life of Elizabeth I, by Allison Weir
Diary of Anne Frank, by Anne Frank
Master of the Phantom Isle, by Brandon Mull
Human Acts, by Han Kang
Reading to IL5
The End of the Overworld, by Nick Eliopulos
The Leaf Thief, by Alice Hemming
Beach Bummer, by Ryan T Higgins
We are Growing, by Mo Willems
Here Comes Teacher Cat, by Deborah Underwood
Hidden Gem, by Linda Liu
D14 reading
Girl in the Moon, by Terry Goodkind
Where the Mountain Meets the Moon, by Grace Lin
Book Thief, Markus Zusak
Media Completed
A squirrel wonders where all the leaves are going.
A bear is dragged along to the beach.
Some grass figures out what it’s like to grow as unique blades.
A cat has to substitute teach a class, and learns to enjoy it.
This is a major Hindu spiritual work, one of the (if not the) oldest spiritual texts as well as the longest epic poem in existence. This audiobook, despite being abridged, was about 45 hours, and it took me about a year to read. The story was interesting (to me) and ok in terms of ease of following. Not much previous knowledge was necessary.
A rock discovers it’s awesome.
In the second book of this African fantasy trilogy, the 3 main characters fight for their differing visions of what is best for their country. This is an interesting and well-written book, based on the emotions it elicited in me. They weren’t all positive emotions, but I feel like any book that gets the feels is well-written. (As long as I’m getting feels the author suggested.)
Eggasaurus Inc. misunderstands the intents of a kid.
Saturday, I drove dad 3 hours south to visit my aunt. She is very cheerful and says she doesn’t see herself dying any time soon. The pneumonia has turned out to be antibiotic resistant, but she is not in multiple organ failure as my cousin made it sound on Friday night. She was pretty tired, though. The visit took place from noon till seven, so I was pretty exhausted by the end of the visit. Dad and I then went to the hotel and a restaurant.
IL6 had his Pinewood Derby, and came in 39th out of 58th.
Sunday
Sunday dad and I went to church with dad, cousins Bob and Steve, and my uncle. Then dad and I had breakfast at Perkins, and visited my aunt. Before leaving, dad and went to dinner at Olive Garden with Steve.
IL6 was thrilled to see me when I got home, and demanded my attention. D15 was in an unusually chatty mood, too.
Monday
Monday we woke everyone up at 7 (despite it being a holiday), and stuck the cats in bedrooms. Workers came with their jackhammers to dig a trench where they’re placing the drain tile.
D15 and IL6 didn’t like the noise, so after their virtual appointment, we all piled into the car to go to Olive Garden (that’s where IL6 asked to go). We usually go to one in the suburb north of us, but M12 had an appointment right across from an Olive Garden in a suburb two cities to the west. So Aaron dropped D15, IL6, and I off there and drove off to the appointment. IL6 was crying so hard because he wanted to go to the other Olive Garden. It was -14 degrees out, and he just stood there outside crying. Finally I bribed him to go in with Dairy Queen later.
When the workers left, I let the cats out of the bedrooms. About an hour later, I realized I hadn’t seen Freyja since letting them out. But D15 said she’d seen him, so I dropped it. A couple hours later, I went looking for him.
Downstairs, I heard him meowing for help. It took a couple minutes to pinpoint it, since whenever I started looking, he stopped meowing. Finally, I found him in the area between the ceiling of the basement and the floor of the first level. He wouldn’t step down into my hands, so finally I wedged a large container about half-way up under the place Freyja was looking out. After I walked away, he jumped down using the container. Why do cats go places they can’t get out of?
Later that night, I noticed smoke pouring out of a greasy skillet on the stove. Dad had accidentally started the burner under it. I took it off the burner before it burst into flame. Then I pressed the check button on the smoke detector. It was dead! But we survived, and I guess we are fine. And now we know we need a new smoke
Tuesday
Tuesday, dad and I went to the gym with dad – I lifted weights with my legs and then walked on the treadmill.
The kids had the day off school because of the -40°F windchill. So they got to listen to more work downstairs. Freyja seemed to handle it a little better today.
I got a call from my cousin saying that on Monday my aunt crashed and is close to passing. It’s a bit surprising, since she seemed weak but ok on Sunday.
In the evening, my friend Liz came over, and we watched Doctor Who and ate pizza.
Wednesday
Wednesday Aaron and I went to the gym. Then he, dad, and I drove to the elementary school and asked to look in the lost-and-found. We found IL6’s missing hat and coat! I had hoped they’d eventually make it to the lost-and-found. He likes the replacement coat better than the original, but he’d really missed that hat.
Then we went to Olive Garden to see if D15 had left her coat there. She had. (How you accidentally leave your coat somewhere when the temperature is below zero is beyond me.) We decided to eat since we were there.
IL6 was thrilled to see his hat when he got home. Then he played Spore on the computer with M12 for a couple hours, which was kind of M12. D15 had rehearsal.
I got news that my aunt was probably going to die overnight or Thursday, and was unable to read or do much because of grief. Hopefully Thursday will be better for at least reading.
Thursday
Thursday IL6 and I had a useless appointment in which the provider told us there’s nothing she could do, and she wishes she’d called to tell us not to come in.
Aaron and I finished a couple of errands. We went to the gym. In the evening, we went to D15’s parent-teacher conferences. She is doing well.
That night, my aunt passed. I guess I feel relieved that she’s not suffering anymore.
Friday
Friday I took IL6 to an appointment, then relaxed for the rest of the day. Except, I did make a phone call to insurance about IL6’s med – which apparently will simply not be covered by insurance.
M12 went to board game camp and D15 went to visit her mom. Dad went to my sister’s overnight, and IL6 took a 1.5 hour bath. So it was a calm night.
Week’s Photos
Reading to myself
Wee Free Men, by Terry Pratchett
The Week: Agony in Los Angeles
Mahabharata
Children of Virtue and Vengeance, by Tomi Adeyemi
Beyond These Walls, by Tony Platt
Wrath of the Dragon King, by Brandon Mull
Reading to IL5
The Day of the Night Crawlers, by Troy Cummings
D14 reading
Girl in the Moon, by Terry Goodkind
Aaron reading
Fury of the Gods, by John Gwynne
Media Completed
Tiffany wants to be a witch, but has no one to teach her. However, when her brother is kidnapped she must convince some tiny men to help her use withcy powers to bring the brother back. This wasn’t as funny as the witch novels, but was pretty cute.
Alexander and Rip figure out why night crawlers are invading their town. IL6 was excited to read this book after he remembered the first book. It did not disappoint.
Franny develops a crazy dangerous bomb, but Igor eats it. She has to shrink herself and be snorted up Igor’s nose to retrieve it. Cute story. IL6 was pretty excited to read more about Franny’s creations.
Dog races the strawberry. Very cute.
Seth and Kendra need to beat the dragon king when he declares war on them. This was very interesting second book to the series.
Saturday Aaron, IL6, and I went to M12’s band concert. It was really well-done. Later in the night, I started my cross-stitch pattern (a baby Creeper for IL6).
Sunday
Sunday, we all relaxed. I went to the gym and wrote letters. Aaron and I had a date.
Monday
Monday was a good day. IL6 had two appointments. The second was a blood draw, which, as always, was this huge ordeal. After dropping him at school, Aaron and I ran our errands. Then dad took us to Perkins. I wrote two letters. I worked on my to-do list.
Dad paid for Aaron to get a gym membership and personal trainer (he’s paying mine, too). I have faith he’ll exercise his butt off and I won’t almost beat him at arm wresting anymore. (Yes, I’m poking at you, Aaron. I clearly would have won if you hadn’t cheated. 😝)
When D15 got home, she was upset about some strange 3-day assignment in which she was supposed to pretend to be Italy and compete with other “countries” for parts of Africa. She didn’t like hurting the pretend people. I emailed the teacher and asked if this was supposed to help students empathize with the people being colonized. She said yes, but she didn’t think people were getting it, so she had decided to drop the assignment.
I read to D15 and played LEGOs with IL6.
Tuesday
Tuesday I took M12 to the eating disorder doctor, and she told him he needs to eat more if he wants to grow during puberty. He is now worried he will end up shorter than D15. Part of the problem is that he asked me if he would be taller than D15 and I answered “I hope so.”
M12 had a school band concert. He did great. Not only did Aaron and I go, but we saw where he sat, which apparently was important to M12. (I’m not sure what made him think we didn’t pick him out when he went to his seat. Maybe because all 7th graders look alike?)
The rest of the day was encompassed with some teen drama with D15. At the end of the day, I told Aaron I couldn’t wait to go to work so I could sleep, and IL6 offered to go into his room with me so that I could take a nap on his bed. He took my nap really seriously, because after getting up at 8:45 to tell dad and M12 to take their meds, I came back and sat on the bed with my head in my hands. After a minute or so, IL6 said “mommy, why aren’t you sleeping?” 😊
Wednesday
Wednesday we had D15’s intake for therapy.
Then we went to the pharmacy and tried to pick up IL5’s prescription. The pharmacy said they didn’t get the script from the doctor. I said “That’s odd. This is the second time they’ve said they’ve sent it, then it didn’t get here.”
I messaged the doctor and said their script didn’t make it, again. And could they send a sample to the office nearby so we wouldn’t run out, as promised on Monday by the provider.
The patient care coordinator said they never sent the script, and they didn’t send the sample because the script was now sent. But that is exactly what the provider said on Monday “I just sent it now, it wasn’t sent before.” I have 100% faith they sent it all three times, and that their system is glitching and not sending it and that now I will run out of the med because the patient care coordinator didn’t send the sample to the nearby office, as the provider promised.
After school, I took IL5 to McDonald’s for a playdate. He really enjoyed himself. Immediately upon returning home, dad took us to Olive Garden, but my sleeping disorder hit on the way to Olive Garden, and I fell asleep in the car. I could hardly keep my eyes open during dinner, plus the ice in my drink made me cold.
Upon getting home, I fell asleep again until it was time to work. IL5 joined me and played on my phone. At work, I immediately pulled the blanket over my head, did some last minute stuff on my phone, stuck my head out, and slept soundly until 6am.
Thursday
Thursday was wonderful – I had zero appointments. I could have used it to get lots of stuff done, but I caught up on letters (I had 6 this week), used my Groot wax seal Santa got me, and I read. In the evening, IL6 went to Cub Scouts and checked in his Pinewood Derby car. Then he made a cute card for me. He even wrote “I love mom” on it with hearts he drew himself. (That reminds me, he’s been getting hearts with “E(2) IL6” written in them, lately. I asked who E(2) was, but all he said was “I think E(2) loves me.” I should see if I can get hold of E(2)’s mom for play dates. Right now, he has 3 friends – triplets – S, E(1), and M(2).)
Oh, and IL6’s med was there. (Blush)
Friday
Friday morning, I started at work, hearing that my aunt was in the hospital with sepsis. She’s 86, so it’s not a good sign. However, they cleared it up by the end of the day and sent her back to the rehab facility. She does have multiple organ failure, though, so she has been put on hospice starting Saturday. Dad and I were already going to visit her this weekend, so we decided it was a good idea to go despite the recent hospitalization.
I took IL6 to an appointment. I meant to take him to a second appointment, but when I got there it didn’t exist. 🤷♀️
Aaron and I went to the gym to weight lift and walk on the treadmill. Then Aaron cooked chili, and I sat with IL6 in his room.
Reading to myself
The Mystery of Exploding Teeth, by Thomas Morris
Children of Virtue and Vengeance, by Tomi Adeyemi
Beyond these Walls, by Tony Platt
Wrath of the Dragon King, by Brandon Mull
Mahabharata
Reading to IL5
Golem’s Game, by Nick Eliopulos
D14 reading
Neverseen, by Shannon Messenger (I’m reading this to her)
Aaron reading
The Fury of the Gods, John Gwynne
Media Completed
In this amusing bit of nonfiction, Morris includes stories about weird medical incidents throughout the centuries. The stories were short, and well-researched. Some of them seemed a bit unlikely, but he admitted that although he got the stories from medical journals, the stories may not be true. I enjoyed reading this.
Penelope is given a saber-toothed cat for a pet, but has a lot of difficulty controlling it. A cute story that IL6 liked.
This is the penultimate book in the Stonesword Chronicles. Our intrepid Minecraft players must face some challenges alone. IL6 is enjoying the series.
Saturday flew by more quickly than expected. I got a slow start to the day – getting nothing done before our weekly Skype call with my mother-in-law. After the call, I put some chicken chili ingredients in the crock pot. IL6 wanted to “make something with sugar as an ingredient.” So we made a chocolate cake. I wasn’t expecting it to turn out well, since I was letting IL6 be imprecise with the measurements. But it actually turned out really well!
I then went to the gym and had a relaxing 2.5 mile-per-hour stroll on the treadmill (so enough to get my pulse up a little, but I could still type on my phone).
After a short nap, I made a meatloaf in the instant pot. I’m still trying to figure out how to use the instant pot, so it took some troubleshooting to figure out that my problem was that I needed water to build pressure.
Then I cross-stitched and read while sitting in IL6’s room with him. Aaron and dad watched TV. IL6 and M12 watched YouTube.
I lost 1.9 pounds this week, but I gained 1 pound last week so I’m still on track at an average of one pound a week. I have 8 pounds to go to get to the weight I was when I met Aaron (my next goal). Maybe 2 months?
Sunday
Sunday, I went to church with dad in the morning. In the afternoon, M12 went to band rehearsal and D15 came back from her mom’s. In the evening, Aaron and I played LEGOs with IL6.
Really, the only interesting thing that happened had to do with the laundry. In October, I bought a bunch of 5T pants for IL6. A week or so later, all but a couple were missing. We decided there was a missing laundry basket and looked and looked for it. Finally, we bought some more 5T pants. Fastforward to Sunday. I was putting away laundry and discovered a bunch of 4T-5T socks (which had all been decommissioned months ago), as well as some 4T pants (also decommissioned months ago). I realized that somehow, without us knowing how, the missing laundry basket with all the missing 5T pants (plus some small stuff that got through at that time) got reintegrated into our laundry when D15 sorted the last gigantic pile of laundry. So now we won’t run out of pants, at least.
Monday
Monday, Aaron and I ran a bunch of errands. They had accumulated over the past two weeks while IL6 was home. We had so many, we didn’t finish them all. Then I went to the gym.
At home, I cooked bacon (IL6 had requested some the day before), washed the skillet, cooked 3 pork chops for M12’s dinners this week, washed the skillet, was about to cook some shrimp in it, but decided I was done with cooking for the day.
In the evening, I read to D15 while M12 was at Boy Scouts.
Tuesday
Tuesday was a long day. For about two months, I’ve had trouble with my eyesight, and I recently noticed it was just in my right eye. That was stressful, because I wondered if it was something like a cataract. But I was mostly thinking I would wait until my next eye exam to get it looked at unless it got significantly worse.
Then, Tuesday morning, my eye started stinging and suddenly the vision got really bad. As I was driving home, several floaters appeared. That was stressful, combined with the vision issues, so I called opthamology when I got home they had an appointment available in 20 minutes, and it takes 20 minutes to drive there, so I took it.
Then dad came out of his bedroom and veeeeerrrrry slooooooowly told me that he was going to my sister’s tonight, and could I fill his pillbox before I left? Argh! So I filled for Tuesday evening and Wednesday morning as fast as I safely could, then rushed out the door with Aaron.
There was no need to rush, because the doctor kept us waiting for an hour. When she examined my eye, she said the eyes were dry and that my right cornea had a harmless condition in which it was bumpy instead of smooth. That would make the dry eye impact the right eye more than the left eye. She told me to take tear eye drops 4-6 times a day.
She also said she saw floaters in my right eye, but it otherwise appeared healthy. She said I’m a bit young to start getting floaters, but that it was harmless if it was just the “jelly at the back of the eye.” Of course, she doesn’t know that it’s the jelly, but it sounded like a reasonable suggestion. She wanted me to come back in 4-6 weeks to check the status of my floaters.
Aaron drove me home, since I couldn’t drive with my eyes dilated. We stopped at Buffalo Wild Wings on the way home.
Another stressful thing that happened: dad let my homeless nephew J20 into the house at 2am Tuesday morning. They trashed the kitchen, ate our frozen pizza, Texas toast, 2 Tupperware containers of spaghetti, and left a brand new package of frozen fries out to thaw. (Aaron later found two heaping plates of food set out to spoil, so they didn’t eat all this, they only cooked it.) They crashed in the basement, scaring M12, who thought we were being robbed, and scaring D14 when she got up in the morning. They broke the light in the laundry room (though it was probably from the 1950’s and was on its way out, anyway). They stole 3 of D15’s chargers, including the one for her school iPad. Luckily, they left the iPad.
Then in the evening, some unrelated stuff that I shouldn’t share happened, but it was also stressful.
Wednesday
In the morning, I took M12 to a doctor’s appointment. Then I ran some errands with Aaron, made some phone calls, and wrote a letter. Aaron installed new lights in our laundry room and closet so that we had strings on our lights again.
One of the errands we ran is to run to the post office and tell them that our mailbox lock is jammed. They told us it was probably frozen, and to spray deicer in there. We sprayed a whole bottle in. No luck. We tried a hair drier, no luck. I had put our mail on hold so we’d have access to new mail, but they delivered yesterday’s anyway. So we have 3 days of mail stuck in the box.
Thursday
Thursday I went to the gym and spent a couple hours cleaning. I cooked swordfish for dinner, and took D15 to Joanne Fabric to get some yarn for her blanket for IL6.
When I opened up the oven after preheating it to 400F for 20-30 minutes, I found the well-cooked pizza that J20 and his friend left sitting, uncooked, in the oven when they were here.
Friday
Friday I took IL6 to meet his new therapist (for his fear of pooping), and we both liked her. Then I took him to speech therapy. After that, dad, Aaron, and I ran some errands and went to lunch. We got the mailbox lock ordered – it should come in next week. In the evening, I cooked salmon, then Aaron, D15, and IL6 cleaned IL6’s room.
Week’s Photos
2 years in the making!That’s a three cat pile, not two
Reading to myself
Mahabharata
Wrath of the Dragon King, by Brandon Mull
The Remarkable Retirement of Edna Fisher by E M Anderson
Mr Ballen podcast
The Mystery of the Exploding Teeth, by Thomas Morris
Reading to IL5
Diary of a Roblox Pro: Monster Escape, by Avi Avatar
Never a Doll Moment, by Andres Miedoso
Hold on to Your Heads, by Andres Miedoso
D14 reading
Neverseen, by Shannon Messenger
Secret Life of Bees, by Sue Monk Kid
Media Completed
Ari Avatar is dared to go into an abandoned warehouse and discovers a monster. Not too clever, but IL6 liked it.
Desmond and Andres visit Desmond’s grandma’s house, where they encounter a houseful of creepy dolls.
To her surprise, Edna discovers she’s the chosen one. She has to leave retirement to save people from rampaging dragons. So cute and funny.
Desmond and Andres go to a thrift store to buy a raincoat. There, they get attacked by a headless mannequin. I’m sad to say this is the last published Desmond Cole book as of the beginning of 2025. IL6 will be so disappointed.
Saturday I woke up feeling dizzy and nauseated. I’m not sure if I had a stomach bug or was stressed about some unknown factor. Norovirus is going around the area, but if that’s what I had, it was a very mild case.
I had promised my dad I’d take him to Barnes and Noble to buy a calendar, so we all piled into the car because I thought it would be a nice way to get IL6 out of the house. But he threw a temper tantrum in the store because we didn’t buy him a toy. Then we stopped by Best Buy to pick up a new laptop that my mother-in-law bought as a Christmas present since mine finally bit the dust. I had thought getting up and moving around would shake the sick feeling (it would have if it were stress), but I felt downright miserable on the car ride home.
At home, I slept about 3 hours, and ended up feeling groggy, but not miserable. I listened to an audiobook while cross-stitching, and then read. IL6 snuck his way into staying up late by starting to play with his LEGOs right at bedtime, making me feel bad to stop him. Sneaky sneak.
Sunday
Sunday I woke up at 5am (after falling asleep at midnight) to discover that my dad hadn’t come home. He had gone out with my sister the day before, and not come back. I texted him, as he often texts at 5am. No answer. I checked that his pill box was still on his dresser (as an indication of him planning to stay at my sister’s). It was there. He needs to take his meds on time or his stent will clot, potentially leading to sudden death. I knew he wasn’t in a nearby hospital, because I’d be getting updates from them on my phone. My mind was going over all the reasons for these events, and I couldn’t fall back to sleep. Then I got hold of him at 9. He had stayed at my sister’s house. He’d taken just 24 hours’ worth of meds with him. And he forgot to tell me.
About this time, IL6 got up and immediately started playing with his LEGOs. That took a few hours of Aaron putting a set together and then me playing with his little LEGO guys and bosses he’d built. Then IL6 played with the Switch for a few hours. (That also takes a lot of parental attention.)
I tried to bully through what felt like a cold and fatigue. But really my only accomplishment (with Aaron), was to get the basement shifted around for the inspection of the new electrical panel. Other than that, I read and cross-stitched.
Monday
Monday morning I had a video appointment with IL6’s doctor. I’d made it over a month ago to discuss testing IL6 for auditory processing disorder. We agreed eventually that we would get him tested both for auditory processing disorder and autism, as both of those could lead to difficulties speaking.
Later in the morning, I took dad to his last cardiac rehab appointment before “graduation.” We’re both excited to be done. We had another appointment in the same (rather far away) area, so we went to Perkins for lunch, then to the audiologist for a hearing aid adjustment. She turned them up 5 decibels and now he cringes when IL6 talks.
I sat with IL6 in his room until dinner, during which I continued setting up my new computer. Then shrimp for dinner, crafting with IL6, and more sitting in his room (this time reading).
Tuesday
Tuesday I went to the gym with dad – he signed me up for 12 weeks of personal training, which will start next week. I guess it’s probably a good idea to learn how to lose weight.
Later in the day, I checked things off my to-do list, as well as going out to lunch with Aaron, dad, and IL6. I got the basement tidied for the work this week, and got some work done in the livingroom. IL6 and I made a toilet monster out of pipe cleaners and duct tape. In the evening I read. At 10, IL6 and I started a readathon for 2 hours. We finished 2 books.
Wednesday
Wednesday I slept until 2 because I had forgotten to take my evening med the night before and went into withdrawal. Soon, the kids got home from their mom’s, and we all opened Christmas presents. Then they played the Switch, and Dad, Aaron, D15, and I went to Red Lobster. In the evening, I read.
Thursday
Thursday started out with a call from the asbestos removal company – they were supposed to come on Friday to remove our tiles, but had to move it out to the following Thursday because they didn’t plan well. Which is infuriating because we had it scheduled out months ago. And because we’ve already taken out our plumbing, so that means we’ll have 6 people and one bathroom for AT LEAST a week longer IF the people who are drilling can reschedule easily. And because D15 can’t sleep in her room till it’s done. And because the other people were supposed to come and drill on Monday, and now we have to move them. And those people never called me back about rescheduling, so I have to call them again. These asbestos people will not be getting further business from us.
Then, I went by the school to pick up IL6’s jacket and hat, only they didn’t have it. You see, on the last day before winter break, I brought IL6 back to school after an appointment, but the classroom was at lunch, so the administrative assistant said IL6 should stay in the office till the class was done with lunch. So IL6 took off his jacket and hat and sat at the table with the duplos. Then they didn’t bring his jacket and hat back to the classroom with him. So I stopped by to check the lost and found, but it wasn’t there. IL6 was really sad to lose that hat.
IL6 was sent home from school early with an elevated temperature, headache, sore throat, and cough. When I got home at maybe 11, he had a fever of 103.something. So I gave him a Tylenol. At about 4, I checked his temperature again, and it was 103.9. After some hemming and hawing, Aaron and I took him to urgent care. Three hours later, we had a tentative diagnosis of “flu-like virus.” He was tested for strep (negative), flu, and COVID.
In the afternoon, so after IL6’s first temperature and before his second, I took dad to his “graduation” from cardiac rehab. So, yay! That’s 3 fewer appointments a week I have to go to.
Friday
I took a break on Friday. I wrote a letter and took a nap.
I went to the gym and had my first meeting with my personal trainer. We discussed that I didn’t need to lose weight as long as I lost fat, but I would assume I could be in good physical condition without being almost bariatric, as I have been a good weight in the past.
I also read the instruction manual of my new instant pot that Aaron got me for Christmas. I used it to cook our salmon in 42 fewer minutes than it usually takes me. That was fun. Saturday, I will try out meatloaf.
M12 tried out his new drone that he got from Aaron for Christmas. He really enjoyed it. D15 went to her mom’s house for the weekend. IL5 learned to play Mario Kart.
In the evening, I read and cross-stitched.
Week’s Photos
Reading to myself
Carpe Jugulum, by Terry Pratchett
Mr Ballen Podcast
Wrath of the Dragon King, by Brandon Mull
The Remarkable Retirement of Edna Fisher, by E M Anderson
Mahabharata
The Week
The Mystery of the Exploding Teeth by Thomas Morris
Reading to IL5
To Bee, or Not to Bee, by Nick Eliopulos
I’m Your Biggest Phantom, by Andres Miedoso
The Witch Get Witcher, by Andres Miedoso
Diary of a Roblox Pro: Monster Escape, by Avi Avatar
D14 reading
Counting by 7’s, by Holly Goldberg
Media Completed
This is another installment of the Desmond Cole series which IL6 loves. Excellent, as usual.
And another installment of the Desmond Cole series. IL6 loved this one as well.
The fourth book of the Stonesword Chronicles is about our group of Minecrafters trying to find yet another piece of their friend. Cute book in cute series. IL6 is enjoying it.
The witches fight some vampires that are trying to take over Lancre. Funny, as most Discworld books.
Saturday was a good day. Dad and I went to the gym. Aaron, IL6, and I went to get IL6’s Christmas presents to the kids and a turkey for Christmas.
Aaron took out the carpet in D15’s room. We ran into some problem when we found out the pad was glued to the asbestos tiles. Then dad went down there and ripped it up, anyway, before I could ask the advice of the asbestos removal people. Now we have 1 broken tile, as well as some pieces of wood nailed along the sides of the room that we will have to remove. I want to wait until I call for advice before those are removed, though, so I’m not going to tell dad it needs to be done. I’m not sure that after the broken tile and removing the wood the room will be safe for D16 to sleep in, so I’m hoping I can get the asbestos removal people to come early – before she gets back from her mom’s on the 1st of January.
After that, I cooked dinner and read.
Sunday
Sunday, we had a laid back day. Aaron, IL6, and I went to the zoo. We stayed for quite a while. IL6 even wanted to see some outside animals, but the walk was too far so we turned back. We’ll have to go back with a wagon. I cooked shrimp for dinner, and then IL6 and I sat in his room.
Monday
Monday I had an appointment with a dietician. It was actually quite helpful. I found out why I could never meet the grain goal from MyPlate. I thought “1 serving” was about 4 times more than it is. I may start keeping track of my food groups again. We’ll see. Then I took dad to his cardiac rehab appointment.
On the way home from cardiac rehab, my nephew J20 called dad. Apparently, he’d been kicked out of his homeless shelter (hotel), and had 1 hour to get out. We went to pick him up. He may be sleeping on the streets, now I can’t have him overnight at my house any more, because he’s too disrespectful.
Aaron got some bad news on the job application front, and so he was feeling a bit glum.
I cooked chicken for dinner, and got some reading done. I’m now 10 pages from the end of a 675-paged book, and I’m really excited. I have my next book all picked out.
Tuesday
Christmas eve went well. Aaron and I wrapped our stray presents. Aaron picked up a few groceries to get us through Christmas. I finished my 675 paged book that I’ve been reading for months! I attempted to sew a patch on M12’s sash, but couldn’t remember how to tie off the end. I tried and tried in frustration. Then I finally used fabric glue to secure the end. Go loose now, bitch!
IL6 and I baked cookies. He spilt some of the liquid part of the cookies, so the dough was very crumbly. I had to squish the dough into hard little spheres in order to bake them.
In the evening, dad, Aaron, IL6, and I went to Applebee’s. Because everything at Applebee’s is ridiculously high calorie, I ordered a french onion soup and a house salad. (I ate Chipotle for lunch, which sounded more delicious at the moment than any high-calorie food at Applebee’s.)
IL6 put out all 6 cookies and milk for Santa and one baby carrot for the reindeer. I had to go to work in the evening, so I couldn’t steal any of Santa’s cookies. Hopefully they were yummy!
Wednesday
On Christmas, I got home from work at 9:30, and IL6 wasn’t awake. In fact, he slept in till after 10. He loved his presents and books (mostly his presents, he would have liked the books better if he weren’t getting presents).
Then Aaron set up the switch and put Mario Maker 2 and Kirby and the Forgotten Land with IL6. He also put together one of IL6’s LEGO sets for him.
I cooked a feast – turkey, au gratin potatoes, and brussels sprouts. It all turned out well. The au gratin potatoes had better have turned out. I lovingly spread cheese sauce on each slice of potato.
I spent the rest of the day chatting with Aaron.
Thursday
Wednesday, dad and I missed his appointment because he wasn’t awake when I got home, and he only had 15 minutes to get up, dressed, and ready. (That takes at least an hour.)
So I found myself with extra time. I’d like to say I spent it well, but mostly I wrote letters and relaxed. IL6 played on the switch. Aaron had two interviews.
After Aaron’s interviews, he and I took IL6 to an indoor park, which he really loved. Then we picked up dad and went out to eat.
At night, about 10 minutes into my 20 minute drive to work, I suddenly realized the gas tank was on E. I had another 10 minutes of driving before getting to work, and there were no gas stations on the way. I was very flustered. As I approached the turn for the gravel road (which veers sharply diagonal back in the direction I came), a semi passed me, so I didn’t stop my car in quite the right spot to get on the road. The road is white. The snow is white. I drove into the field (which is about a 3-foot drop). I’m lucky the car didn’t roll. Thinking as quickly as my flustered brain would think, I decided not to take my foot off the gas, lest I stop in the snowy field and get stuck.. So I kept driving parallel to the gravel road. Eventually, the field went flush with the road to the point where I could get back on.
Friday
Friday I had a pretty productive day. I cleaned, wrote letters, and ran an errand. Aaron and I took IL6 to the library. The last several hours I spent sitting in IL6’s room with him. I got a bunch read at that time, as well as some cross-stitch.
Week’s Photos
Reading to myself
Mr Ballen Podcast
The Unlikely Retirement of Edna Fisher, by E M Anderson
Behave, by Robert Sapolsky
Carpe Jugulum, by Terry Pratchett
Mahabharata
Wrath of the Dragon King, by Brandon Mull
Reading to IL5
New Pets on the Block, by Nick Eliopulos
The Show Must Demon, by Andres Miedoso
D14 reading
Counting by 7s, by Holly Goldberg Sloan
Media Completed
In the 4th book in the Stonesword Saga, our brave troop of Minecrafters needs to go on a mission to fetch a mooshroom. Yet another enjoyable book for IL6.
In this intelligent and humorous book, Sapolsky discusses the biological (and some environmental) controls of our social/antisocial behavior. I love Sapolsky’s dry sense of humor and all the interesting discussions in this super long book. Some of the neuroscience was a little over my head – he did a good job explaining it, but then I was expected to remember details later in the book which I did not remember. However, I got along pretty well despite that.
Desmond and Andres sign up for a school talent show. It’s all good until a demon enters stage right. As always, IL6 loves these books.
Hibernator's Library 